The 9th Annual Classic R&B Weekend at Hershey Lodge

Hubby and I commemorated our 25th wedding anniversary in November 2015 and just couldn’t figure out how we should celebrate.  Until… My sister told me she was going to this classic soul music-filled weekend. I told her it sounded familiar and when I saw the promo video, BAM!! There it was.

The ALL INCLUSIVE Weekend of Parties, Food, Fun, and Entertainment provided by Voice Distributions & The Sessoms Group I’d heard about for years–since ONUTSS days. Yeah, I know. I will soon tell you all about ONUTSS!

This was a wonderful follow-up to the Capital Jazz Super Cruise 2015 as we had just returned from a few weeks earlier. Luckily the organization still had room so we booked the 9th R&B Classic Soul Weekend right away.

We had a lovely time being submerged in music once again! The weekend started on Friday once we arrived in Hershey PA at the Hershey Lodge and checked in, which by the way was the best check-in I’ve ever experienced! When we reached the counter we gave them our names and they, in turn, provided us with an envelope that contained our keys to the room, and to top it off a Hershey chocolate bar. That was it! No credit card hold, registration or anything else. Off to our room, we explore to find a beautiful room with an interior door that led to the outside where there was room for parking and a bench, which was a nice touch but the folks sitting on it 3:00 am had no idea they were interrupting precious sleep right in front of the room’s window .

The Hershey Lodge had an extremely warm and homely feel to it. The staff was friendly and the rooms and building overall were really comfortable. The Hershey Kisses theme was all over the place–from the building’s entrance to the wallpaper in the bathroom!

With such an abundance of people in attendance for this Classic R&B Weekend event, it was amazing that the attendees didn’t take up all of the rooms.  There were plenty of families there to enjoy the Hershey Lodge offerings as well.

Friday night entertainment consisted of up and coming artists, comedy, and DJ sets. Seven acts were on tap for Saturday in addition to the banquet and recognition.   Since we had a late brunch, we came in at the tail end of the banquet and missed dinner.  By the time the last act came on (Tavares) we needed to eat. I looked forward to seeing them but we had to catch the restaurant before midnight closing. Now this part I think the organization could have split the performances between Friday and Saturday. It was really long to sit for seven acts in a row.

And may I say, the band that played for all of the artists, I believe, was outstanding!  Wish I could tell you who they were…


One of the hosts, don’t know his name.

Meli’sa Morgan
I enjoyed Mel’sa’s performance, she engages the audience and as you can see, she wanted to be close to them!
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That’s Meli’sa’s fiance in the bowtie

Shirley Jones and The Jones Girls
Shirley still sounds good and the assistant vocalists were right on point!   Vonetta or Fonetta Baker (I couldn’t understand which one is her name and googled it but no luck) Anissa Hargrove (the only reason I got her is because she has her own project), and Shontell (couldn’t make out her last name). If anyone knows who these ladies are please let us know. Shirley gave them their shine as they were all soul stirring and well deserved. Check out Anissa “Twinky” Hargrove and listen to a few of Anissa’s Snippets on Soundcloud


The Jones Girls (Shirley Jones, original member)

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Blue Magic
They blew my mind–and hubby’s too as you will hear, lol. They were in great form although one of them was in a car accident over that weekend and still insisted on performing. I don’t know his name but he is the third one who entered onto the stage with an assistant.   They gave us a stellar performance! In my humble opinion, I think the producers should have saved the best for last! But then again, I would have missed all of this GOODNESS!

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Billy Paul
Eighty years young and his performance was a pleasure to experience for the first time!  The organization had five years worth of scheduling conflicts booking Mr. Paul, so indeed it was a blessing to have finally booked him for this event.  Sadly, Billy Paul passed away on April 26, 2016

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Harold Melvin’s Blue Notes
They were snoozers and performed most of Teddy Pendergrass’ hits; they should have gone on first.


The Emotions
By the time The Emotions hit the stage, it was just about time to hop over to the restaurant and “throw some groceries down my neck”! (LOL, Quote from the movie, Smokey and the Bandit LOL).  The little of their performance I caught, they were ok.
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Tavares closed the show, and I missed a good portion of their performance.  After dinner, I rushed back to the venue and caught the last couple of songs 😦 I missed them perform my song, “Check It Out”!

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The 10th Annual Classic R&B Weekend




SeXXXy Love V

This mix has been in the vault at least four years, for my ears only.  It was my first attempt at a mid-tempo SeXXXy Love mix.

I didn’t like the sequence and decided to rework it by adding a couple of additional tracks and rearranging the others.  I now LOVE it!!

I usually listen to my mixes to relax but this one had my head nodding and body grooving–no relaxing here! SeXXXy Love on the Smooth Groove tip!


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Anthony Hamilton Icing on the Cake

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Donald McCollum Lose My Kool


Joe Thomas Let’s Stay Home Tonight

Eric Benet That’s Just My Way

The Isley Brothers f/ Angela Winbush Floatin on Your Love

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Silk f/ Keith Sweat  Happy Days


Tony Toni Tone Couldn’t Keep It To Myself

Jeff Hendrick  She’s So Sexy

Vikter Duplaix I Got You

Jon B Hands On U

Lalah Hathaway Small of my Back

Javier Colon Wassup


Dwele Feels Good

Rahsaan Patterson 6 A.M.


Tina Marie  f/ MC Lyte The Pressure



SeXXXy Love XI

Cupid’s Hunt 2016 was so much fun, it’s a shame Valentine’s Day comes but once a year. Well I’m extending it with the eleventh installment of SeXXXy Love!

I couldn’t help myself, mixed in one night. I hope you enjoy it as much as I do!

SeXXXy Love Vol. IX

Kem  When I’m Loving You

Tamara Wellons Love You

Dessi Di Lauro – When You Need Me (Featuring Paolo Ramos)

Brenda Russell   Make You Smile

Don E  One More Time (Loose Vibez)

Lamone  High Off You

Eric Benet  Spanish Fly

Mint Condition Spanish Eyes

Prince- 1000 Xs-Os

Kelli Sae Found Somebody Like You

J Soul f/Deborah Bond High

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The Foreign Exchange Body

Nite Flyte feat Jean Carne   If You Believe in Love

Maya Azucena My All

Avani – The Waitings Over

Jeff Bradshaw – Girl, I Love You


The Cupids Hunt Podcast Collaboration 2016

It is truly an honor to be part of this collaboration of podcasters and DJs since 2011!! I must say that although I am not a professional, my skills have excelled in ways I would have never imagined. I have a long way to go but nevertheless totally enjoying my journey.

This mix must have known it was a special one because it gave me some issues exporting it. I had to try it four times before it was acceptable to publish!

So here it is…Enjoy!!

SeXXXy – Love X
Maxwell – Til the Cops Come Knockin (extended version)
Prince – Insatiable (rare version)
Improm2 – I’ll Do Whatever
Glen Scott – Deep In It
Ty Causey – Love Me that Way
Janita – Angel Eyes
Faith Evans – Make Love
Liv Warfield – Your Show
Jonathan Maron – Natural High
Jade – When Will I See You Again (Intro)
Janita – I Only Want You

Capital Jazz Super Cruise 2015 (no more newbie)

That’s right, no more Newbie! What can I say? Capital Jazz Productions has outdone themselves once again! The 2015 Capital Jazz Super Cruise was all I expected it to be from my 2013 experience and more!?

Get your tea or whatever you sip on; make sure you’re nice and toasty, cause this is chock fulla Soul and all that Jazz! Now sit back and enjoy!!

Let’s go back to 2014 for a second. I couldn’t attend the cruise but followed the talent lineup as always and drooled the whole time as every artist was announced. My eyes got watery on just about each one because I knew the ship would be less one person–ME!!

Here are a few of the stimulating artists that were part of the 2014 talent lineup:

Jonathan Butler
Lalah Hathaway
Avery Sunshine
Raheem DeVaughn
Kirk Whalum
Alex Lattimore
Ruben Studdard
Mary Mary and,
Pattie LaBelle just to name a few 😦

However, in July 2014, I made a list of the artists I predicted would be part of the 2015 talent lineup

Gerald Albright – check
Norman Brown – check
Rachelle Ferrell – check
Candy Dulfer – check
Maysa – check

As I said before, it doesn’t matter who the featured artists are, because if you know Capital Jazz, you know they can’t go wrong with the talent lineup. If you wait for that, you miss out on a cabin! No stragglers, please😎 So of course in December 2014 I got excited when Capital Jazz made the first artist announcement for 2015–George Benson!

We made plans to arrive in San Juan, Puerto Rico on Friday thinking there would be a mix and mingle. Capital Jazz didn’t inform cruisers until a few days before the cruise that there would be none. So we hung around the hotel. This duo performed two sets and kicked the party off for me! They were phenomenal!


Some scenes from Friday in Puerto Rico (it started out sunny but for the remainder of the day became cloudy and rainy)


Day 1 – Saturday, Oct 24
Depart San Juan, Puerto Rico


I was so happy and excited I could hardly contain myself. The day had finally come; after waiting two whole years, going over to the 2015 Capital Jazz Talent Lineup Website every day or every time I thought about it to see the updates, and at times knowing the results would be the same.

After cruising with Capital Jazz, I will not vacation with a regular cruise again unless it is musically themed! The only other way would be a European/Mediterranean cruise with plenty of my like-minded folks!!😎

There’s just nothing like this style of traveling; live music with so many of the artists you love, have loved and never seen live, and those yet to discover while spending a little time in a place either you’ve visited before, or maybe your first time visiting. It doesn’t really matter (to me), as I have said before, traveling is the bonus compared to the weeks’ worth of entertainment you get to experience.

Some people like to travel and others like music. When they are combined you delve into both worlds. The third world is meeting like-minded people from all over the universe—we all love music first and travel second. At least that’s the way my mind’s eye sees it! I think we could stay on the water the entire eight days and be filled with music and all that accompanies it. In addition to all of the music performances, there’s Chicago stepping (and Chicagoans came out in full force, dressed to the nines in all white attire!), DJ sets, Greek Mixers, The 1st Annual Bald Head Convention 🙂 Karaoke (of which I hesitantly participated and got no love for the terrible job I did 🙂 lol), Classes, Workshops and Q & A’s with the artists, all types of Fitness and Dance classes, Sexy Moves (Pole Dancing, another of which I participated in and have to give thanks to Laura for her encouragement! It was so much fun!), There were viewing parties of movies and popular TV of shows i.e. Scandal and Empire and a sorts of card games, etc.  There really is never a dull moment unless YOU decide to make it one.

The Capital Jazz staff is well versed in the day to day activities and events, and they make no mistakes on greeting the super cruisers and ensuring they get to where they need to go.

Ok back to the story: Boarding was set for 2:30 p.m. and sail at 10:00 p.m. therefore, everyone had all day to do what they pleased in Puerto Rico. People were already LONG-lined up by the time hubby and I arrived at the port about 1:15 or so, and loads of folks were still arriving.


Little did we know, boarding had already begun—seems like these super cruisers were eager to get on board to get the party started! The Carnival Liberty was happily ready to oblige 😉 We ran into a friend who invited us into the line waaaay up front and how happy were we!!?


Thank you Sabrina (Lam Fam)


Me and hubby had front row seats and saw plenty of happy cruisers make their grand entrance–you could say we were the welcoming committee, lol

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DJ Frances Jaye reminds me a lot of myself in the way she loves music. Frances took it a few steps further, and SHE is living out loud as a DJ–something I have wanted to do for a long while but never really followed up on it. I admire Frances for her determination, tenacity, and love for shining the light on so many indie artists. She founded the Neo Soul Cafe website in 2002, which showcases an abundance of talented artists, who are executing great music you probably thought didn’t exist anymore. “They” say R&B is dead, but “We” (in the indie soul movement circle) know the truth! If your mind is open to learning about more than what your local radio station is playing, check the site to keep up with “The Music That Gets Your Head Right”!


Frances Jaye setting up for welcoming the CJS cruisers

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Frances convinced Rhonda Thomas to give us a lil taste of what was to come at her show.


The Ship

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The gurls and me (Laura, Linda and Tonya)


My next door neighbor’s door, lol Cruisers decorate their door to celebrate special occasions.

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Capital Jazz wasted no time with the entertainment on day one! First up…

Michael ColyarSir Michael Colyar has been adopted as CJSC family and everybody loves him! He’s funny as hell and cruisers would see him anywhere on the ship mingling and taking pictures with guests, as well as in the wee hours of the night in his onesies!

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Colyar OnsiesHe’s a fantastic host aside from a phenomenal comedian who injected his brand of humor into the day-to-day shenanigans that were going on throughout the cruise! I remember him from Russell Simmons’ Def Comedy Jam and it’s good to see he along with other comedians from that era, still in the game who have made household names for themselves.

Michael Colyar also hosted the first annual Capital Jazz Super Cruise Baldhead Convention and he informed us that quite a few baldies ONLY attended to celebrate their baldness and laugh at the people with hair. “There will be security so don’t try to sneak your hairy ass in there”!

In the great (bald) spirit of:
Isaac Hayes
Keenan Ivory Waynans
Yule Brenner
Lou Gossett
Samuel Jackson
Vin Diesel
Steve Harvey
Will Downing
Casper the Friendly Ghost LOL!!
Gerald Albright and a few more…

I am grateful for the opportunity to have had the distinct pleasure of meeting Jodine Dorce a few years ago, in the ONUTSS heyday while we were essential members of the indie soul movement.  Jodine is still doing her thing and has grown in all aspects of the arts, culture, and marketing. I’m happy that Capital Jazz also adopted her as a member of their family where she interviews the artists and works behind the scenes in other areas of show productions. I’m so proud of Jodine and her accomplishments!

Check out Michael Colyar’s interview with my Sista Gurl, Jodine Dorce

I didn’t know what to expect from Step Afrika as I had never heard of them. After leaving the show, I was delighted that I had taken the time to witness such great, young talent!

“Step Afrika is a Company that blends percussive dance styles practiced by historically African American fraternities and sororities, African traditional dance and influences from a variety of other dance and art forms. Performances are much more than dance shows; they integrate songs, storytelling, humor, and audience participation. The blend of technique, agility, and pure energy makes each performance unique and leaves the audience with their hearts pounding.” Step Afrika

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From the very first performance I sat in on (Step Afrika), my soul was warmed and as the days moved forward with the various performances they made my heart sing.  I was honored to be in the audience observing, listening and being in a state captivation by all of the multi-talented artists I witnessed from the musicians to the singers, a blend of pure perfection—a marriage made in melodious heaven


It felt good to get all gussied up to either stand on line and wait until the doors opened or just find a seat afterward (depending on who was performing).  The most popular artists you definitely want to line up early for to get a good seat. Best of all you don’t have to think about buying or having your tickets in hand—all that’s needed is to make a decision as to whose show you will see.  THAT IS THE CJSC LIFE!!!

So if anyone thinks this cruise is too expensive, just think about all of the entertainment that is included on top of the outstanding Capital Jazz staff, who is there to ensure your happiness while you are in their care.  You would probably never get to see these artists perform in a year’s time, let alone in a week!  Once you pay for the cruise, you have paid for your entertainment and travel to boot!!  And folks wonder why 2016 is sold out.  There you have it!!

Disclaimer: I am not a professional videographer/photographer, but merely one who loves capturing great musical moments. Some of the videos are shaky from excitement and trying to focus. You will also see waiters with drinks and other folks walking across the camera. The good and bad thing about this type of entertainment traveling is that since you’ve paid for the trip in advance and there is so much going on at the same time, you have no obligation to sit there for an entire performance, especially since the two main stages are set up for two time slots each, and somewhere in there they go on simultaneously; you really have to plan accordingly. And remember to factor in dinner!

Sidebar: Host, Tony Richards always informs the newbies and reminds the old heads to “Pace Yourself”. There’s a lot or a little something for everyone! If you’re anything like me, you want to try and make your way around to everything, which is impossible! But hey, you can die trying, lol!


#paceyourself as host, Tony Richards would say

The first music performance of the evening was from our very own Eric Roberson, who may I say has become a staple of the Capital Jazz Super Cruise! I see he’s dipping and dabbing on other themed cruises as well–good for him! It was also nice to have New York homey, Lenny Green on board as one of the hosts this year; he hosted to a packed house. Big mistake–I moseyed in all late, well just before showtime and had to get a seat waaaaaay in the back! As you can see I didn’t have such a good view–folks were in MY way, lol.

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Lenny Green Eric Roberson DMo and Eric

The ERRO show opened with “Picture Perfect”; he and D Maurice Macklin aka DMo, Eric’s background singer, sidekick and friend were sounding so good harmonizing on “Where Do Go We from Here”. I just sat back and enjoyed those beautiful sounds flowing through my ears. And what a bomb ass back-beating band with Spur of the Moment’s Wayne Bruce on guitar…😎 I’m not sure who else was part of this band. However Spur of the Moment was the main stage house band including members:  Tim Steele, Keven Kojo Prince, Mark A. Walker, Skip Pruitt and Eric Parker.  In addition to backing artists from the R&B and Jazz worlds, they produce their own music that has received raved reviews!  Spur of the Moment is next on my “to buy list”!

Anyone who has been to an Eric Roberson show knows that he loves to interact with the audience by asking them to throw out some words so that he can create a song with them. Here’s what they came up with:


Wayne Bruce on guitar

Toe jam
Do vegans eat meat
Fried chicken
Let’s turn up

I wish you could have been a witness to this portion of the show. Eric was really hilarious and is super talented, the way he can make stuff up on the fly like that! He also sang classic rap lyrics sung to perfection in a classical/operatic style that threw a lot of us off. The only song I recognized was Biggie Smalls’, “Big Poppa”.

Because I am such a huge supporter of indie soul artists, I appreciated that on the very first day, Eric and Frances Jaye put emphasis on the importance of supporting The Underground Lounge artists on their individual time slots. Their minds were definitely in sync! At Eric’s show, he dedicated “Borrow You” to Frances Jaye. How sweet! And she was on another part of the ship making others musically happy!

Here’s a little inside info on Eric 5 with Jodine Dorce

After The ERRO show, we went to the Neosoul Cafe to hang with DJ Frances Jaye for a bit and had a good time jamming to some of my favorite tunes, but especially my new joint by The Foreign Exchange, “Asking for a Friend”!


Me and DJ Frances Jaye. Love that Capital Jazz keeps her coming back! The music she plays is so important to those who don’t know there’s more that meets the ear than those 5 songs “radio” keeps in constant rotation…

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And who are these two, I don’t know them, lol Interrupting my photo shoot!!

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Day 2 – Sunday, Oct 25
Fun Day At Sea!

There’s a lot to look forward to today. The Legends of Hip Hop, the Sunday Football Party, The Gospel Show with Cece Winans and Jakiem Joyner and later on in the evening The Jazzy Opening with Norman Brown and Gerald Albright and then Maysa, The Underground Lounge with Rhonda Thomas and George Tandy Jr. and finally, Gerald Veasley’s Late Night Jam Session.

This is basically what the itinerary looked like throughout the trip on a daily basis.

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Backtrack for a sec: I went to change my camera battery although I still had around 40% charge left in the current battery. I looked for my fully charged additional battery, and low and behold this is where I discover I did not have it after tearing up my carry on, which is where it was supposed to be. Then, I looked in my main luggage–nowhere to be found! I know I’m still growing, I did not cry. I just dealt with it like the adult I am, although I was pissed! The first thing I did a week before the trip was, charge both batteries and put the additional battery and charger together. I get home after the trip to find them on my computer desk 😦 A few of the pics and videos were shot with my phone camera which came in handy but the quality in some cases, may not be as not as good…

And so, I needed a plan B and that was to research the type of cameras others on the ship were using. Thank God I found James and Wes, who both had Nikons but my battery fit only one of their chargers. Another Nikon user was DJ Frances’ husband Keith. Both of them saved my sanity I tell you! Otherwise, I could not share this experience with you!

Ok on with the party!

Cece Winans and Jakiem Joyner played the main venue of which I had no intentions on seeing although I should have. I needed to hear the word that Sunday but truthfully looked forward to the Legends of Hip Hop performance. On my way back to the Lido deck, after finding I had no additional battery, I stopped in for a hot few minutes to see that the crowd was overflowing to the brim of the venue, standing room only! I did manage to squeeze in to get a few shots. I also stood there long enough to get a message from Cece and felt the spirit in just those few minutes as she ministered to a full house!

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Check the Cece Winans interview and Q&A with Lenny Green

While I was writing and editing for this blog post, Capital Jazz was busy editing audio and video interviews with the artists.  They will also confirm thoughts I’ve shared and hope you get time to listen to your favorite artists if not all of them. I am telling you, from the mouths of the artists and the cruisers to your ears, you will hear some extraordinary stories I believe you will identify with and absolutely LOVE!!

The Legends of Hip Hop – All New York Based!
MC Lyte, Kurtis Blow, Kool Moe Dee, and Doug E. Fresh

Rain, rain, rain didn’t stop the CJSC party! The football party was held in one of the indoor venues this year as the Legends of Hip Hop overtook the Lido Deck where it was pouring raining—that had nothing to do with the show we all looked forward to participating in.  Let the show begin!

What a WOWZER!!  The crowd was thick, it was pouring; some folks had their umbrellas up, a few had plastic caps on their heads—others even had their raincoats on.  So what does that mean?  The rain didn’t stop a damned thing!  People partied like it was everybody’s birthday!!  MC Lyte hosted, and guests Kurtis Blow, Kool Moe Dee and Doug E. Fresh thrilled us all with classic hip hop and 70s/80s soul!

One question though, how old is hip hop?  Kurtis Blow said he is celebrating his 43rd anniversary in hip hop.  He is 56 so that means he was 13 in 1973, 43 years ago.  Was hip around at that time?  I’m just sayin.  Kurtis was waaaay ahead of his time on that one!

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The Legends of Hip Hop “Rock the Boat”

Check out The Legends of Hip Hop interview and Q&A with MC Lyte

The evening’s main event, Jazzy Opening f/ Norman Brown and Gerald Albright who shared the stage for their show and Maysa was up next.


Hostess, Pat Prescott

DSC_6513The way Norman and Gerald play off of each other is fantastic (saw them in ATL a few years back with Will Downing where they rotated their on-stage performance). That was the first time I’d seen this style of performing. One of them performed every other song or so alone and then they did a song or two together.

Norman Brown did his thing on “For the Love of You” and Sol Edler Vanessa Williams and her daughter, Lisa Locke (melodious voices perfect assisting vocals, and even better on their own!) Did I tell y’all I love background vocalists? Yes, I do! They are the sparkling gems that bring a solo artist’s performance home! I love it when the featured artists give them the opportunity to share their gift with the audience! Ok that was a sidebar.

Check out Gerald Albright’s interview and Q&A with Pat Prescott


The stage is set up in the main venue to extend out and allows the artist to get a little closer to the audience, which is just what Norman did. He also played Janet Jackson’s “That’s The Way Love Goes” and shouted out the cool folks who don’t move :-). My favorite part of Brown’s show was how he “slow cooked” P Funk by Parliament Funkadelik. Very Funky!

Gerald Albright played Johhny Gill’s “My My My” and James Brown’s “It’s A Man’s World” and they both played a few of their own cuts of which I was not too familiar, however they both played a couple of covers together which was outstanding, like Neyo’s “Champagne Life”, James Brown’s “Get Up” and Frankie Beverly’s “Before I Let Go”.

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Norman and Gerald had the audience one their feet!!

By the way, towards the end of the cruise, Norman and his fiance’ got engaged!

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Check out Norman’s interview with Jodine

Maysa is such a magnificent performer; at any given performance she will take you on a ride with her that lets you know just where a song derived. Maysa truly spoke from the heart and I was so in tuned to her that I found myself tearing up, as she shared stories about her son and parents.

Tony Momrelle joined Maysa for “Still a Friend of Mine” and it felt a little like a mini Incognito reunion. Glad to know they will be on the 2016 ship. I hope Maysa is able to join them this time (they performed without her in 2013).

One other nice touch to the entertainment scheduling is, you never know who will perform with who. Many of the artists that perform solo shows, will accompany other artists on their show or appear on the Soul Session stage.

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The Horn Section–Jeff Bradshaw, Marqueal Jordan, Marques Anderson and Farnell Newton


Angela Phillips, Amber Harmon, Jason Morales and Troy Sol Edler


Marcus Anderson


Jeff Bradshaw

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Check out Maysa’s interview with Jodine Dorce


My Soul Sista, El Gee

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Later on that night, who do I bump into? Maysa and Chris Bynum (Biscuit) who played for the Underground Lounge and one of the baddest drummers in the DMV (Sound of the City band member as well)

The Underground Lounge Showcase with Eric Roberson

George Tandy Jr. and Rhonda Thomas performed but I missed Rhonda.  All did not fail, though. Eric also hosts The Soul Session which is how I made up for the chance to see Rhonda off her show stuff–twice Part I and Part II! The Soul Session features background singers for the main artists and the Underground Lounge artists. This is nice because you get to experience the background vocalists solo and appreciate their individual talent. More on that later. Although I hadn’t heard of George Tandy before I enjoyed his performance as well as his fan base–so much so they gave him a surprising standing ovation! In setting up his song Higher, his description was quite detailed; he started off by talking about love from the male and female viewpoint and when he finally got to the song, it turned out to be quite smooth and sexually intense! Since returning from the cruise, I heard Steve Harvey play George’s song, “March” on his morning show.


Voice Off with Lenny Green and Eric Roberson

Good Night!


These right here?!! Had me cracking up! Brings the kid out in you. The stewards truly know how to make you smile and ensure that tip!

Day 3Monday, Oct 26

This was a quiet day. Purchased a few souvenirs and got back on the ship to soak up some sun.


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An Evening of Sensual Soul with Joe and Kenny Lattimore

I’d seen Joe’s performance in Aruba at the Soul Beach Music Festival a few years ago. We stayed at the same hotel and I had the opportunity to take a photo with him while there. I enjoyed his show and it was interesting to see that Joe has a solid fan base as he made himself available to the ladies by leaving the stage to sing to them, which happily turned into their photo opts.





Kenny Lattimore’s show I highly anticipated seeing since I am a fan of his music and had yet to see him perform live–he undeniably delivered the goods! Here’s a snippet from my favorite album, From the Soul of Man, Donny Hathaway’s “I Love You More Than You’ll Ever Know” and although he sang the hell out it, I really wanted to hear more from that that album! What was pretty fascinating to learn from him is that he said he didn’t want to sound the same as other artists and listened to fan favorite, Phyllis Hyman for inspiration.


Check out Kenny’s interview with Jodine Dorce


Jeff Bradshaw was a treat to see perform throughout the cruise!



Another highlight for me was running into Kenny after his performance!


Capital Jazz photographer extraordinaire, Demetrius Robinson! Thanks for sharing those camera tips with me, D!


It’s always great seeing the lovely Selina working with the Capital Jazz staff!


Caught Jeff Bradshaw roaming on the party deck!

OH, and what a beautiful surprise to learn that Frank McComb had residency on a nightly basis in his ‘Living Room’ (the ship’s Piano Lounge). I was walking past the casino bar where he was sitting and he saw me walking towards him, with the “I know you from somewhere face”, which was really nice to be remembered from the ONUTSS days. We chatted for a few minutes and I stuck my head in the living room later on that night for a few; Frank had the audience mesmerized!

The piano lounge is the perfect setting for the audience that appreciates that one-on-one interaction the venue space allows. Frank and the audience chatted with one another as if they really were in his living room; that’s how close in proximity they were to each other. He played a few other artists’ songs like Donny and Stevie; I even requested Frank sing an interlude from his album, Straight from the Vault called ‘White Line in the Sky” and he asked me what I knew about it. All I could say was how I felt from the first time I heard it, which was “I wanted more”. Well, my night was made after he sang all one minute and forty-nine seconds of it! I later discovered from the interview with Maysa that I’d missed a historical moment where a host of artists at Frank’s show shared the mic and to quote Jodine, “shifted the energy into a gospel fest”! I’m so sorry I missed that! Again, you can’t be everywhere. #paceyourself


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Jodine Dorce interviews Frank McComb

Gretchen Parlato was another artist I was not familiar with (I seem to be repeating this quite often) and did sit in on “Butterfly” where she does this soft clap in the beginning of the song.  From the little I heard, Gretchen has an amazingly sultry yet mellow voice that I enjoyed, but got distracted with friends and left the show, I’m ashamed to say.  A day or so later I overheard one of the backing vocalists, say that Gretchen’s show was a real musician’s show.  I interpreted that as musicians sincerely appreciate her performance.


Pat Prescott moderates a panel discussion with Women in Jazz including Candy Dulfer, Keiko Matsui, and Gretchen Parlato

Soul Session with Eric Roberson Part I

This, I reveled in immensely!! The Soul Session is definitely where you want to be to get a taste of awe and high energy. You never know who will pop up on stage and bless us with some good ole saaaangin! The Soul Session gives backing and underground vocalists the opportunity to stand out front, permitting them to shine center stage! You may catch a few of the main stage artists partaking in this soul-like jam session as well! They all perform a cover song that’s familiar to the audience and the Gary Brooks Band members: Gary on bass, Carl Browne on keys, Alex Moseley (Lisa Lisa and Cult Jam) on guitar, and Nelson on drums are all remarkably on point with every artist’s request.  It starts at midnight and I’m a night owl, so this is right up my alley!


Michael Colyar is at it again! This time, his lady Kelli joins him in the onesies!!



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Eric, Karen Bernod and Timotha Lanae’


Eric and Michael, DMo, Sol Edler and I don’t know who the lady is, Rhonda Thomas (had my chance to see her do her thing) and Eric, and Marqueal Jordan

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Chillin with DJ Frances on the party deck


My girl Norma and family “in da club”!


Day 4 – Tuesday, Oct 27
Fun Day At Sea!

Fun in the sun was on tap this day and then I had Be’la Dona to look forward to as they engulfed the Lido Deck with their fiery performance! The all-female band oozed beauty and sex appeal, but don’t get it twisted! Be’la Dona had its DMV populace straight up partying at the height of the day, where the sun was shining so beautifully! Their homies were out in full force!

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“Sweet Cherie” Mitchell-Agurs, Keys and music director;  Claudia “Kool Keys” Rogers, keyboardist; Shannon Brown, drummer; Tempest “Storm” Thomas, bassist; Natasha “Lil Boogie” Proctor, congas; and vocalists, Karas Hill, Stacy, and Danni.

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Jodine Dorce interviews Be’la Dona

On the main stage later that evening, Candy Dulfer and Rachelle Ferrell shared the stage. Candy’s performance was exhilarating! She shared stories from growing up in the Netherlands when she shared that there were not many musical influences in her hometown, hence the USA is where the better part of her musical inspirations derive. It is a real skill and talent to blow the sax and sing between playing, and Candy does that oh so well!

I didn’t catch Rachelle Ferrell’s performance although I heard from other cruisers she displayed strange behavior and it reminded me of Stephanie Mills in 2013. They said she jumped on the stage during Cece Winans’ performance and hugged her. Michael Colyar  said Rachelle Ferrell sang one song for 35 minutes.  He asked the audience at one of his many on-stage appearances, of which artist was more interesting, and they all agreed it was Stephanie Mills, and that’s all I can share on that!

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Pat Prescott interviews Candy Dulfer

Raul Mid`on is absolutely ASTONISHING! Blind yet talented beyond belief! He uses his lips in the shape of a horn, and the next audible sound shifts to the trumpet! Raul is an incredible singer/songwriter and he plays multiple instruments–simultaneously; I really enjoyed his performance! I must admit that another favorite is hearing the artist set up the song (did I say that already?) to give the audience a little background history, one in particular, in New York, of course, where “The rent is too damned high”.  I was familiar with him from a few years back when NYC parks were more fruitful with free outdoor music concerts, I had the opportunity to see him perform at Madison Sq. Park.


Hostess, Pat Prescott



What a precious moment! Raul and Frank share the stage!

Jodine Dorce interviews Raul Midon

Underground Lounge with Eric Roberson
Tony Momrelle is a truly humble soul; Eric Roberson said some nice things about Tony in his intro about how lucky he was to have worked with Sade as a backing vocalist.  As Tony was setting up one of his songs he, in turn, let us know what a huge fan he is of Fred Hammond and spoke of how fortunate Eric was to have worked with Fred in the group United Tenors—and how he would love to be in Eric’s shoes.  He also spoke of an instance where Maysa was on the phone with Stevie Wonder and he’d asked to speak with Tony to let him know how well he did with his cover of Golden Lady.


Tony Momrelle’s wish band and Underground Lounge band–they are some bad asses!!


Lysette Titi Oweleo, Antone “Chooky” Caldwell, Don’t know his name at the end, and Frances Jaye with hubby@ bottom right


Dre King, Samir Moulay, and I don’t know his name on the end.

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Tony said that if he were to ever perform as a solo artist on the cruise, this sensational band would be on his wish list to back him. His wish came true!!  Dre King on keys, Chris Bynum on drums, H Bee Boisseau on organ/keys, Samir Moulay on guitar, and music director, Antone “Chooky” Caldwell on bass. On vocals Steve (the singer) Smith, and Lysette Titi.

And then this happened after Tony’s performance… So beautifully unexpected!! Loved it! Lead vocals, Steve (the singer) Smith.  Background vocals, Eric Roberson, Lysette Titi and D Maurice Macklin.

Timotha Lanae’ was another artist I wasn’t familiar with, I didn’t know quite what to make of her performance and think the audience kinda felt the same. However after going over to Youtube to learn a bit more about her; she has some pretty good music on there from her debut album, Red.


Farnell Newton, Tony Momrelle, and Eric Roberson

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Jodine Dorce, Maysa and me after Tony and Timotha’s show on Camouflage night! Loved it!


The gang cuttin up!


CJ Photographer Demetrius Robinson took it all the way there!!


Good Night 🙂

Day 5 – Wednesday, Oct 28, 2015

grenadaDidn’t do much this day either. Bought souvenirs and especially looked forward to purchasing spices grown there like cloves, cinnamon, and ginger to name a few. Then back on the ship for more sunbathing.

Later on that evening, the real treat for me was Floetry.  Although I’d seen Marsha a few years back at City Hall Park in NYC, it was truly great to see her and Natalie on stage together again! Marsha sang colorfully and her voice was angelic.  Natalie, on the other hand, is spiritual as she spoke to the audience with such care, concern, and inspiration; she kept asking us if we were well and made us realize that we need to celebrate ourselves and look at the positive in our lives—very uplifting words she shared. I have always admired their talent, the way they vibe on stage and then their voices fused to virtually sound like one, although Marsha is singing and Natalie is flowing.

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Check out the Floetry interview and Q&A with Tony Richards

Musiq, well he’s another story. I’d heard over the years that his performances weren’t good. He was in NYC at BB Kings just before the cruise, and I heard rave reviews of what a great job he did with this concert. Therefore, I really looked forward to his performance. I was disappointed. His band joined him, including backing vocalists who sounded pretty good. However, the sound was really overbearing to the point that his voice faded in and out. He hit a couple of high notes but not enough to win me over. As a matter of fact, the audience members tried to tell him to turn down the sound, but either he wasn’t trying to hear them or it was out of his control. Or, maybe that’s the way it was intended to be. In particularly, I felt the drummer thought it was HIS show! He played thunderously loud. I stuck it out because I wanted to hear my song, “Buddy” which of course came at the end of the show.

Check out the Musiq Soulchild interview and Q&A with Tony Richards

Joey Sommerville’s Get Down Club
I only stayed for a few minutes but had a good fortune of seeing a bit of Farnell Newton (trumpet) and U-Nam’s (guitar) performances. Their set mirrored Gerald Albright and Norman Brown’s as they rotated taking the stage. After so many years of being somewhat familiar with U-Nam from Myspace days, it was a pleasure to see him perform, joined by his wife Shannon on sax. U-Nam has worked with many of the artists you know and love, like: George Benson, Eric Benet, Maysa, Marcus Miller and one of my favorites, Ty Causey just to name a few, but many many more. Farnell has also works with another fan favorite, Jill Scott and has worked with Bootsy Collins, Chaka Khan and another favorite of mine, Najee among many more!


These pictures were taken in very low light with my phone camera and one of the days my main camera battery was charging 😦


U-Nam and wife, Shannon


Although I did not see her performance, I heard she was excellent! Keiko Matsui! Thought I’d share…


“Sleep tight, don’t let the bedbugs bite” lol (we used to say that as kids, there were no bedbugs, lol) I had to say that!

Good Night 🙂

Day 6 – Thursday, Oct 29, 2015
Tobago (Scarborough)

I went to a local beach with some friends and didn’t bother to take my camera out of my bag. I was underwhelmed. The sun was shining up until not long after we arrived and shortly after went into hiding for the duration of the time we spent there. The water was rough in the area where we lounged therefore, we had to walk a few feet to calmer water. I took a nap and when I woke up we got ourselves ready to head back to the ship.

Might I add my friends had to have coconut water from “the” coconut! The taxi driver took us to a few spots he knew of, even someone’s house who had a coconut tree. They weren’t home so we went to a couple of markets and played it real close to the time we had to be back to the ship. Ran into traffic like crazy and on an island like that, when you’re stuck, you’re stuck! The line was backed up forever to get back to the dock. FYI, the ship waits for no one. When they tell you what time to be back, you’d better make sure your ass is on that ship. If not, you’d better have some cash, credit card/s and your passport, or you’re shit out of luck! Thankfully, the driver was able to get out of that long line and get us to the ship with a half hour to spare :-/

Come to find out later, the hold up was getting Chaka Khan on the ship :-/


This was the hut next to the one from where I bought a Roti. Of course, it was closed, and I couldn’t resist not taking these pics, lol! Especially the one below!


The James Brown Tribute was a complete surprise for me because it was not advertised as part of the lineup. Hosted by Wayne Bruce, the master musical director for the main stage shows assembled this monster band to allow James Brown to be relived and remembered.

The scenario is set to Wayne Bruce wanting to go on with the show and every time he tries to proceed, there’s always someone finding their way onto the stage to interrupt him and the band. This was pretty much the same concept from 2013, The Donald Byrd Tribute–so much fun!!

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Eric Roberson performed “Sex Machine” and “Please Please Please” and it was just ridiculously hilarious. Eric is a fool and as my mother used to say, “No fool, no fun”! Eric and DMo did a fantastic job playing the roles of James Brown and Bobby Byrd! Eric had the audience in tears; he fell into the audience and managed to get his hands on one of the ladies’ purses and I tell you, it was outright comical!!


Cleophus (Chance Howard) in the audience

Here comes Chance Howard as Cleophus the 5th, Candy Dulfer’s friend (musical director and singer/musician in his own right) down the aisle, interrupting the show to claim his place on the stage, and then performed “I’m Black and I’m Proud”.
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The Horn Section – Jeff Bradshaw, Farnell Newton, Marqueal Jordan, and Marcus Anderson “Gonna Have a Funky Good Time”

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Chris “Big Dog” Davis on keys


The Underground Soul Lounge
Karen Bernod is a sista friend in the indie soul world where ONUTSS had the honor of presenting her at a listening party in 2006. So when I heard she would be one of the featured Underground Soul Lounge artists, I was overjoyed and so happy for her that she would gain a new fan base! That’s what it’s all about! I love that Capital Jazz gives underground/indie artists the opportunity to shine where people discover for themselves new music from artists they witness live and in color. Karen’s performance of Nina Simone’s Four Women stoked a fire in the audience that yielded a standing ovation! She also performed one of my favorite Incognito songs where she sang lead, Yesterday’s Dreams—made me a happy lady!Karen


Eric hosts the Underground Lounge. In the background, Steve the Singer and Lisette Titi


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Us with Joonie who performed at the Underground Soul Lounge as well. I missed him…

Check the Indie Soul Discussion panel with Frank McComb,  Rhonda Thomas, Karen Bernod, and Tony Momrelle moderated by Jodine Dorce

I know of Marion Meadows but was not familiar with his music so I made my way to see the last half hour or so of his performance. Oh, how glad I am I did! Marion is a really Kool Kat and told a New York story about this phrase while setting up one of his songs. The backbeat was tight too and Marion gave each of them a mini solo shine… I really loved that part! Joey Sommerville also made an appearance on Marion’s set and that’s pretty much the way many of the performances went; artists jammed with each other. If you missed one of them at their show, there was good chance to see them on another artist’s stage! NICE!

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Marion and Joey Sommerville

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At The Atrium – Party over here!!


Sweet Dreams 🙂

Day 7 – Friday, Oct 30, 2015

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After a beautiful day on the beach in Barbados, we returned to the ship to engage in song with the wonderful George Benson who gave us all great music and those classics you love!
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Check out George Benson’s interview and Q&A with Pat Prescott

Costume Night
I never participate in Halloween (not since I was a kid; go figure, my son was born on Halloween). This night was really a lot of fun! There were so many creative costumes people came up with that gave me ideas to consider if I ever decide to dress up again!


Mine was easy; I used my get up from last year’s Harlem Renaissance themed family reunion. There were plenty of us on board with the same idea in mind!

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Laura as Moses

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I think this is the woman (with the Afro, bottom right) Michael Colyar was talking about–the omelette line)

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DMo as Sho Nuff and the Robersons with their One Night Stand (she is pregnant with their 3rd boy)

Comedy Night
Comedy host was Michael Colyer and his girlfriend, Kelli took the stage for a few (I believe it was to introduce Michael). Laughter is always good for the soul and mine was filled with it!  Tony Rock, Gary Owen, and Arnez J. respectively had my cheeks hurting throughout the entire show as all of them had me dying laughing! Check the facial expressions and gestures, too funny! Almost forgot to include this–the next morning while I was on the line at breakfast, this mo-fo–Arnez J. jumps in front of me to get some grits!! Who did he think he was? Michael Colyar? He says that’s what he does everywhere he goes. If you didn’t listen to Michael’s interview, go back and listen to the story where he talks about a woman he gets in front of on the omelette line, lol. All I could do was laugh at Arnez when it dawned on me who he was…



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Gary Owen


Arnez J.

Soul Sessions with Eric Roberson Part II

Lysette Titi, George Tandy Jr. and Eric Roberson

Lisa Locke and DaChonne Nicole

Amber Harmon and Sol Edler

Maurice “DMo” Macklin and Eric Roberson

Day 8 – Saturday, Oct 31, 2015
Fun Day At Sea!

Winding down to the last day of the cruise was about getting in my last bit of sun and just chillin.




Line Dancing/Stepping lessons. Not sure of which one–plenty of takers though…

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It was a joy to see Chaka Khan looking lovely and still sounding good! The band tightened it up with the rock thang going on with You Got the Love and that’s where the background singers stole the show for me!

Although I don’t know her personally, I was really happy to see Toni ‘TJ’ Scruggs as a member of the backing vocalists. She refers to herself as a vocal musician and I like that term! Toni has worked with some of the biggest names in entertainment in addition to Chaka like Mary J. Blige, Beyonce, Lalah Hathaway and Rahsaan Patterson (which is how I discovered her). Lucky for me, I met Toni at the airport on the way home and what a pleasure she was to chat with for a few. Toni is below with the low fro, glasses, and big hoops.

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The background vocalists displayed incredible energy and took their opportunity to shine on!

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Check out the Chaka Khan interview and Q & A with Lenny Green

The Whispers are just timeless! Walter and Scottie sound just as good the day your ears first heard their voices! The band was tight and Mr. Suave, Leaveil Degree keeping the dance moves on point, he always delivers! Nicholas Caldwell and Leaveil keep my eyes on them while they command the stage with their suave steps. I missed Nicholas for this performance.

Sadly, as I am writing this post Nicholas passed away January 5, 2016. I’m just heart broken…


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It was a delight to see Gerald as a guest musician with the Whispers! See how this works?

Check out The Whispers interview and Q&A with Lenny Green


And to all, the last Good Night 🙂

As of December 1st, the Capital Jazz organization announced the first two artists for the 2016 cruise!! Drum Roll!!! Ledisi!!! and Incognito (2013)!!! I love and will take them, but my Wish List consists of:

Mint Condition
Eric Benet – check
Down to the Bone
Snarky Puppy
Liv Warfield
Angela Johnson
A Zhane reunion
Mark de Clive-Lowe
KC and the Sunshine Band
Walter Beasley (since he couldn’t make 2015)
The Foreign Exchange
Carol Riddick
Loose Ends
Carmen Rodgers
DJ Hollywood
A Soul Cypher (like the 2015 Soul Train Awards)
Blue Magic (saw them in November and they were excellent!)
Marcus Johnson
The Clark Sisters
Tamala Mann
Kat Williams
Jill Scott
David Sanborn
New Edition/BBD

My Predictions

Ledisi – check
Will Downing
Brian Culbertson
The OJays
Marcus Johnson
Yolanda Adams
David Sanborn
Boney James
Dave Koz

Since the first artists announcement, here are additions to the lineup:

Eric Benet – see my wish list
Nick Colionne
Howard Hewitt
Ken Ford (2013)
Jazz Funk Soul featuring Jeff Lorber, Chuck Loeb, & Everette Harp
Lee Ritenour
Angie Stone
Jose James (YAAAY)
BWB – Norman Brown (2015), Kirk Whalum (2014), and Rick Braun (2013)
Kindred the Family Soul
Algebra Blessett
Patti Austin

Check out the 2016 Talent Lineup thus far

I hope you’ve have taken a few minutes to view the Capital Jazz TV highlights and interviews that permitted you to glean more information about the artists you know and love. Although I was there, I did not sit in on any of the artists’ Q&A, so I appreciated hearing them talk about themselves and their careers. The questions the audience asked of them were interesting and the responses, truly enlighting.

This post was an absolute pleasure to take up much of my time to present to you! At some points I was truly all over the place, checking and rechecking for typos and stuff. I was eager to get it completed and thankfully brought it all together. Reviewing the photos and videos brought back such wonderful memories that made me grateful for my life, period! I appreciate live music even more than yesterday, I laughed out loud, and thrilled I was able to cruise with such wonderful people!

Euphoria, exhilaration, happyness🙂 satisfaction, peace and calm, the sunshine (more than just the sun) and a relaxed state of mind, are all of the emotions I felt throughout this music-filled vacation! The money I spent to partake in it was worth every penny!!

I will always remember my Capital Jazz experiences and hope you enjoyed this ride with me! If you’ve been inspired to attend a future CJSC, don’t delay! As you have gleaned from this post, this is a popular cruise. When the info for 2017 is announced in the spring of 2016, be ready! The folks who missed out on the 10th anniversary cruise will definitely be the first to grab cabins for those they lost out on for 2016! Don’t say I didn’t warn you!!!

Here’s a look at the highlights from 2015 (watch to the end, you’ll see/hear what I’ve been talking about).

Hope you ENJOYED!!

Peace and love to all of my #musicheadswhoalsodontmindtravelingonwater
Pam aka Sista Suga

Women Making HerStory Now!

In honor of Women’s HerStory Month/International Women’s Day I thought it would be appropriate for me to take a moment to reflect on the women I admire, respect, honor and whose inspiration has touched me in more ways than many.

 Women ROCK and I’ve always said that we can run this world; what do you think?


Women’s HerStory in the Making!

I am ecstatic for the opportunity to celebrate the women in my life, my circle and those far and near including those I have yet to meet face to face.  From an array of disciplines including, but not limited to: music, graphic arts, education, singers, writers, designers, photographers, technology, activists, advocates, entrepreneurs, and fitness trainers these women have made a great impact on me and in many ways my life. Most of them may not even be aware of my high regard for them.

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I know many of you personally and some of the tribulations you have endured with significant-other relationships, family, the loss of loved ones, and health issues; yet you continue to push forward.  Life-threatening illnesses have ravaged your body, mind, and spirit, leaving you emotionally drained. Yet you are still here, as God has kept you fighting to show your strength to others.  You are sweet, bold, charming, outspoken, kind, even brazen at times; you’ve overcome adversity yet many of you maintain living with it and keep a smile on your face, constantly encouraging others without a second thought.


By the same token, YOU are experiencing wonderful and fulfilling moments of merit and prosperity, where you display incredible energy that spreads like wildfire!!  I have been observing you excel from one level to the next, making great strides in your community and personally. You exhibit your wealth of knowledge and demonstrate positivity to those in which you come in contact.  I admire your intelligence and learn from your experiences more than you know. You have worked really hard at what you do; your talents have been observed by people in the right places that propelled you to higher heights, nationally and internationally!!


It takes a tenacious, persistent woman to prepare her mind and body to decide now is the time to change your unhealthy eating habits and exercise for better health and a longer lifespan. You did that and huney, you look good!! I’m so proud of you!

You deserve recognition, support and most of all love—right now because you are doing the DAMNED thing—making HerStory NOW!


Hopefully, you will take a moment, a minute, an hour, a day or whatever it takes to do something extraordinary for yourself, sometime real soon.  Give yourself the flowers you have truly earned  (whatever those flowers may be!).  I am telling you, you truly deserve them for all you do and have done for others, forsaking yourself, instead of putting YOU first.

Gurl, just




Cheers Ladies!!!
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  This tribute is for you, my Sistas!!

The Honorees Are:

Abby Dobson

Adriane Ferguson

Adrienne Powers – My sister

Ajsha Pullin

Alecia Gillard

Alicia Hammond

Alethea Hardin

Alice TurboFleur

Alison Crockett

Alison Murry

Allecia Frye

Amma Whatt

Andrea Greene

Angel Monique

Angela Johnson

Anita Bryant


Annita Utra Shivdyal

Ann Marie Collymore

Annmarie Reynolds

Anshia Tull

Antoinette Jeanine

Antonia Jenae’

Ayesha Payne

Barbara McCarthy

Calandra Branch

Candy Davis

Caprice Starbrite Toddman

Carmen Berry

Carmen Farnum

Carmen Rodgers

Carole Eady

Carol Riddick

Cecilia Nolasco

Chante Ramsey

Choklate Moore

Chris Sidifall

Clementine Jackson

Colleen Rubino

Collette Blakeney

Cynthia Cruz

CynDiva Harcum

Danielle Davis – My sister

Danielle Hatchett

Daphne Lipford – My sister

Darlene Whittaker

Darnelle Gillisslee

Deborah Bond

Deborah Heffernan Hinds

Deone Murph Holder

Deeyjay Renay

Dereth Howell

Detrel Howell-Sapp

Dianne BestEver Nelson

Dianne Mommaship Washington

Doreen Massiah

Dyneka L. Lewis

Elsa Lathan

Emily Scott


Eulelia Pinky Johnson

Fiona Bloom

Frances Jaye

Francine Small

Gail DJflame Hall

Georgia Powers

Green Tea

Harron Evoria

Iman Bianca Williams

Iola Anyan

Iris Brown

Ivana Kotov

Jacqueline Nesbitt

Janice Palmer

Janita Maria

Jarmelle Anderson – My sister

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Jennifer Ravis

Joann Gomez

Jodine Dorsey

Johnnie Savage-Waugh

Jolene Kay White Bethune

June Faulk

June Felix

Karen Bernod

Karen Smith

Kai Lane

Kateria Niambi

Kathy Powers – My sister

Kathy Watkins

Kathy Wilkins

Katie Piper

Kaylan Nelson

KeJuan Stroud

Kelli Sae

Kendra Ross

Kerri Simmons

Kierra Benefield

KiKi Kawkins

Kim Hernandez

Kim Namaste Berry

Kimberly Hines


Kimberly Nichole

Kitchen Rebel

Kym Scott

Lady Vee Ongpauco

La’Kiesha Underwood

Lalah Hathaway

LaShawn Jacobs

Latisha Banks

Laura Garris

LaVerne Francis

LaVonne Thompson


Leslie McNair-Wilder

Linda Simmons

Linda Taylor Pryor

Lisa Bryant

Lisa Stanton

Liv Warfield

Lorenda Robinson

Lori Leff

Lorraine Bailey

Louella Byers

Luznerida Rosado

Lydia Berry-Pearson

Macheka Williams-Roach

Marie Rush

Marilyn Douglas

Marlena Latif

Marlo Bracey

Mary Brown

Mary Frye

Mary Pryor

Maya Azucena

Maysa Leak

Mercy Harris

Michelle Gillenwater

Michelle Harrlem Holmes

Michelle Jenkins

Michelle R. Smith

Mika Deharlem

Mildred Fallen

Millie Barbot

Minister Rasha Patterson

Monet Cherise

Monique Thomas

MsElle Emme Esse

Natalie McGregory

Nay Marie


Nikki Norwood

Nina Morena

NORC Program Directors (Naturally Occurring Retirement Community) are challenged in numerous ways; 100% caregivers, advocates, and nurturers to New York City’s vibrant and frail Senior Citizens!!  Ladies, you are doing phenomenal work!

Norma Brown

Norma Hendricks

Pam Beck

Pamela Kellum

Pamela Henry

Pamela Nichols

Pamela Stevenson

Patience Morton

Patricia Knowles Ford

Paula Ralph-Birkett

Pepper Thomas

Perquida Williams

Phyllis Johnson

RaRe Valverdi

Raquel Carter

Regine Ridore

Renee Michele Barton-Rose

Renee Sheffey

Robyn Frye

Rosalie Astacio

Rose Ordonez Jenkins

Ruscelle Williams

Ruth Cordero

Sandra Kizum

Sandra Faye Tucker

Sania’ Jones

Sarah J. Hill

Sarah Jones

Sarah Huny Young

Selina Donaldson

Shani Elliot

Sharon Quinn

Shereen Lewis

Shiane Lee

Silawn Lewis

Stacey Sheffey

Stephanie Renee

Stephanie Thomas Gonzalez- My sister

Stevie Robinson

Sunshine Brown

Sy Smith

Tahesha Paige

Tonya L. Brown

Tonya Johnson

Tara Powers – My sister

Theresa Thomas

Tiffany Taylor

TJ Scruggs

Tonya Dillard-Johnson

Tonya L. Brown

Tra’ Love Peace

Tracey Hodges

Tracy Freeman

Tracy Laramore

Tracy Lymus

Tracy Lynn Deis

Tricia Angus

Trina Broussard

Valerie Smith

Vanessa El

Vanessa Hill

Vee Lisa C Walker

Victoria Warren

Vivian Sessoms

Wanda Bennett

Wandetta Benton


Zoila Noella

My mother, Ernestine Blutcher Thomas Webb, my sister Sophia Thomas, and my grandmother Arrie Lee Cox Blutcher are at rest but are included in this tribute because of their words of encouragement, wisdom, and everlasting love.  There is an empty place in my life for all of them as I miss their faces, hugs, and kisses, but most of all their voices, because no matter how near or far, they were just a mere phone call away…

I’m sure that there are more women who have touched my life in one way or another and if I have not mentioned her here, I can only attribute it to my mind, and not my heart…Just knowing you has given me insight and courage to excel to aspire to be every woman I so desire to be.

The Listening Suite – 2015 Cupid’s Hunt Edition: Love Letters

Nice track list Calandra! Enjoy your Valentine’s Day!

Liner Notes Lounge

10959667_909888762384887_5400378004733014991_nIt’s almost Valentine’s Day and for the second year in a row, I am participating in the Cupid’s Hunt Podcast Collaboration. “Cupid’s Hunt is the premiere online collaboration event where DJ and podcasters from all over the Internet release loved-themed music mixes all on the same day: Valentine’s Day!” Check out our Facebook page HERE for details and links to my fellow podcasters’ Cupid’s Hunt selections.

This year, I decided to go with the theme Love Letters. As a lyrics-lover, I wanted to use selections that weren’t just average love songs, or typical slow jams, but tracks that had lyrics that, when separated from the music, actually read as a love letter. So sit back, and enjoy. Thanks to my friends and fellow podcasters Trel ‘Fave’ Robinson, Macedonia, and Doug ‘Fresh’ Ramsay for providing this episode’s station ID drops!

Listen HERE on Mixcloud, or Listen/Download from SoundCloud below.


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Cupid’s Hunt 2015

Cupid’s Hunt is the premiere online collaboration event where DJs and podcasters from all over the Internet release loved-themed music mixes all on the same day: Valentine’s Day!

This is where you will find all of my Cupid’s Hunt Mixes for streaming, mixed for the Valentines Day Love Fest over the past few years.

I am so happy that the founder, Todd Grundy Mr. Love Man himself invited me to be a member of this elite group to share my version of love, or lack there of…


1. Let Me Love You – Janita
2. Barumba – Incognito
3. Your Lover – Faith Evans
4. Make Love Tonight – Chris Rob
5. In the Mood To Take It Slow – Najee f/Meli’sa Morgan
6. Sophisticated Lover – Maysa
7. Juicy  – Roy Hargrove f/Renee Nuefville
8. Until Then – Jill Scott
9. Sunshine – Quiet Dawn
10. Marathon – Raheem DeVaughn
11. Ecstasy of Love – Intro
12. Kiss – Antoinia Jenae
13. Heaven – SuCh
14. Ride the Beat – Faith Evans
15. Falling – Will Downing

1. Groove On Ledisi
2. Inside Cheryl Pepsi Riley
3. Come Inside (dialogue) Intro
4. Whose is It? (Interlude) Total
5. Imgonnacome Alison Crockett
6. Crown Royal Jill Scott
7. Lay Awhile Raheem DeVaughn
8. I Wanna Know You D-Influence f/Dyanna Frearon
9. Touch Me ChinahBlac
10. Late Night Rendezvous Carl Thomas
11. Lay You Down Portrait
12. Morning Love Carleen Anderson
13. Funny Brown Rice
14. You Know What Happens Alison Crockett
15. I Like The Way It Feels Carol Riddick

1. Early Bird – Angela Johnson f/Trish Angus
2. A Sexy Way – Alyson Williams f/ Tony Terry
3. For You (I’ll Go There) – Lamone
4. Gettin it On – Mint Condition
5. Give Me Love – Davina
6. This Love I Have – Marva King
7. Dance 4 Me – Nyr
8. Make Luv 2 Me – Zo f/Monica Blaire
9. Garden of Love – Raheem DeVaughn
10. Imagination – Floetry
11. Sumthin Sumthin – Maxwell
12. G-Spot – Gerald Levert

1. The Art of Love – Toni Braxton
2. Love Calls – Ty Causey
3. Bedroom – Jade
4. Satisfy You – Will Downing
5. Can We Come Together – Eric Benet
6. Right Her, Right Now – Maysa
7. Come Inside – Intro
8. Bedroom – Raheem DeVaughn
9. Touching Again – Eric Benet
10. All Night Long – Trina Broussard
11. Funny How Time Flies – Intro
12. Alright – Val Watson f/Patrice Rushen
13. Hurry Hurry – Pete Belasco
14. Til Tomorrow – Marvin Gaye

1. Get Me Off- Improm2
2. Tonight is the Night – Jerzee Monet
3. Ahh – Silk
4. 911 – Robin Thick
5. Slowman -Rosie Gaines
6. Romantic – Goapele
7. Get Me Off (Deep Funk Instrumental) – Improm2
8. All I Want Is You – Incognito
9. Sensual Loving – Nicole Jackson
10. Better – Nicholas Ryan Gant
11. Alone Together – Daley f/Marsha Ambrosius
12. Say Yes (10th Year Anniversary) – The Floacist
13. Anything Goes – Christion
14. My Place – Tweet
15. Can We Get Down – Jon B.
16. Calling Me – Raheem DeVaughn

1. I Want cha Babe Ledisi
2. Human Touch –  Kem
3. Slowly – Selena Johnson
4. Examine Me – Warren Xclnce & Etta Bond
5. Phone Sex – Selena Johnson
6. Nothing (Interlude) – Jill Scott
7. Wet – Sandra St. Victor
8. Obey – Dwele
9. Sexy – Maysa
10. Dinner and a Movie- Ron Isley
11. The Baby Maker – Carl Thomas
12. Intro – Slakah The Beatchild
13. Lay You Down – Jose James
14. Sex in the City –  Noel Goudin
15. Feels Like We Sexin’ – Calvin Richardson

1. Interlude: Introspective Mood – Kenny Lattimore
2. Don’t Talk to me Like That – Will Downing
3. Place in Your Heart – Ty Causey
4. Do You Want Me – Jade
5. Do You Feel The Way I Do – Rahsaan Patterson
6. Walkin – Angela Johnson f/Lisala
7. Sick of Fools – Leigh Jones
8. Crying Over You – Angela Johnson f/Trisha Angus and Lisala
9. Only You – Jill Scott
10. Seven Days – Mary J. Blige
11. Still Come Back 2 U – Laurnea
12. Remedy – Leon King
13. Never Fall In Love – Gordon Chambers
14. No Guarantee – Chico DeBarge
15. Love, Sex and Philosophy – Soul: ID

Loose Ends

The long awaited show date finally came–and then it went! I wanted to see Loose Ends when they were at BB Kings, NYC and the Capital Jazz Festival (still looking forward to my first experience–but that’s for another post).

Finally, on November 8, 2014, I got together with some childhood friends; Norma and June and my Soul Music Brother Aqeel, we had a blast!


Fred “Bugsy” Buggs of New York’s 107.5 WBLS introduced Loose Ends and Indie Soul Artist, SuCh (Sue Charles) opened the show.  She has a beautiful voice, and the crowd definitely felt her vibe and gracious personality.  She threw her magic touch out into the crowd and they fell right in sync, participating with her song Sugar Maple (went real good with my name, Sap from a Suga Maple, lol)  SuCh and the crowd’s energy was outstanding and was the perfect match for audience participation. SuCh stopped by our table after her performance and was delightful to chat with for a few moments!  I totally support indie soul artists and this show was perfect for her to show off her talent to a room full of music heads there to see Loose Ends.

I have been to many concerts and this one had to be one of the best that I’ve seen a long time! Every soul in BB King’s that night had a ball, it was a “straight up” JAM session in there! Everybody was singing along and every BODY was on their feet, mind you this was a sold out/seated show!

Jane Eugene’s excitement and enthusiasm was just as intense as the crowd’s to see her and the band perform! They paraded onto the BB Kings stage sporting all white and lit it up like a bolt of lightning that never left!  The crowd went wild!!

Since this was my first time seeing Loose Ends live, I didn’t know what to expect.   They opened the show with Stay A Little While, Child and everyone jumped to their feet to groove with Loose Ends; it was electric!!

I was ecstatic they sang Mr Bachelor off The Real Chuckeeboo album as it is tops of my favorite Loose End albums!  I was surprised they performed the track, Don’t You Ever Try to Change Me since Jane was not a member of the group at the time the Look How Long album was released. Never mind that though, Look How Long is one of my favorites as well!

Their version of Slow Down was really on point at the end of the song, because they actually slowed it down.  You’ll see.

The backing band for Loose Ends did a fantastic job on the music and vocals, and I would go see them again and again should they keep coming to NYC!

The Band
Jeff Robinson – Vocalist
Palo Santo Vocalist/Hype Man
Craig T Cooper – Guitar (broke it all the way DOWN on Watching You)
Leroy Boogie Babaloo Greer – Percussion  (broke it all the way DOWN on Watching You, took it GoGo!)
Keith Eaddy – Bass
Cory Mason – Drums  (broke it all the way DOWN on Watching You, took it GoGo!)
Art Sherrod Jr. – Saxophone (he did his thing on Slow Down)
Aya Iwata – Keyboard

I hadn’t planned on recording “You Can’t Stop the Rain”, and kinda slept on it until I realized this was the part of the show; where the backing vocalists had the opportunity to let their voices shine (and oh did they show out!!) This is my favorite part of a show and I love it when the featured artist shares the spotlight! LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! #20FeetfromStardom

Backing Vocals
Waylynn MommyGiva Pitts
Robert Gee (who I had the pleasure of becoming acquainted with during the MySpace days, I was surprised to learn it was him in the flesh!)
Dominique Karan

Editing the video footage was just as exciting as it was to see the show in person and truly difficult to cut it down–I wanted to show you everything!  It brought back memories of that evening which will always stay with me!  I never got tired of listening to and watching it over and over!!

Ain’t nothin’ like live music!  As long as I live on this earth, you better believe I’ll be somewhere supporting what I love–good music!

Hope you enjoy as much as I did!!  Please let me know what you think by leaving a comment and share if you’d like.

Special shout out to Brotha Aqeel from Jane!  Listen for it!